Everything is getting online nowadays, and
dating is no exception to this! Online dating has gained a rapid momentum in
the recent years. Thanks to the growing number of dating sites and the growing interest
among the users for being technically sound and competitive in dating too!
It obvious you can date the best online, but
you need to make it safe too! Safe, being online? Doesn’t that sound a bit odd
and weird? Not really, if you haven’t witnessed the shadowed truth of online
dating sites! If you are still hallucinated by the seven colored rainbow of
online dating sites, it’s high time to wake up, open your eyes wide and follow
the lines below.
Go virtual!
While creating your id and username in any
online dating website, make sure they are in no way related to your real world.
Do not take a bit of chance too! Shadow it completely. Why should I do that? If
this question is coming to your mind, you are too immature dear! What happens
if you fall in a wrong trap? How genuinely do you know the person at the other
end? No more than what he/ she says, right? What if things turn out the other
way? What if that other person uses your personal information to track your
friends, family and relatives? What if you are stalked? Hence it is wise to
shield away your personal life from your dating life.
Limit yourself!
Do not disclose anything related to your job,
job location, native place, etc. that many dating sites ask for. You can write
whatever you like, even pour out your heart and squeeze the last feelings too,
doesn’t matter, but do not mention anything too personal. Else the consequence
is mentioned in the previous paragraph. Choice is totally yours!
Meet before meeting, virtually!
If you are one of those who is desperate to
have a date and has agreed on someone after few chats, then hold on, not too
early dear! Or else if your online dating has reached saturation and needs a
real face to face meeting, you need to be even more alert than before. What to
do now? Ask for their contact number, call them and talk. In this way you can
get to know their original voice, which can help you some way for recognizing
them. You can also try webcam. Everyone has it!
Being in a romantic relationship is the
ultimate desire in every person’s life. But being in romance and getting into
romance are two very different things. Hadn’t this been the case, incidents of
breakups, failed love and vengeance wouldn’t have been so dominant in today’s
generation. Hence it is wise to be a bit wise and then no one can beat your
confidence.
